Tuesday, June 2, 2009

What if…?

At a meeting you notice a person sneezes into his hands. Five minutes later your boss brings the person over to introduce him to you. He extends his hand to shake hands.

What would you do?

  1. Consideration
Who is affected and how are they affected?

The Person - Confused, embarrassed

You - Unsure, nervous

Your Boss - Surprised, angry

Your Company - Negatively affected



  1. Solutions
    • Don't shake hands

    • Shank hands

    • Execuse yourself

      • "I’m so embarrassed. I just sneezed on my hand. As soon as I get back from the restroom…"

      • "Please excuse me for not shaking hands. I’ve got a bad cold and don’t want to spread it."


  1. Respect

Don't shake hand

- Ok for you. You temporarily avoid problem. Rude to others


Shake hand

- Hard on you. Works for the others


Escape

- May work for you and the others immediately. Problem remains



  1. Honesty

Don't shake hand

- Cause more trouble than it solves


Shake hand

- Hard on you. Easy on the others. Ultimately, it work best for you


Escape

- Doesn't really resolve the situation



  1. Refine as necessary
You decide that after shaking hands, you will immediately excuse yourself to go to the restroom and wash your hands.

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